Question: Was This Too Forward Of Me?

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Answer #1:

YES

Answer #2:

you were in the right and i think you deserve better than him. stay the night? what a loser.

Answer #3:

You could've been nicer about it, yeah. Saying that he needs to "work harder" makes you sound like a high-maintenance bitch. Sorry.

Answer #4:

You were in the right. You did the right thing.

Peace.

Answer #5:

No it wasn't to forward of you at all. It seems like this guy is just trying to sleep with you. drinking in his apartment listening to music.... typical man trying to get you tipsy and fool around. You have every right to suggest that you go to dinner or a movie. wait a week and if he still hasn't invited you OUT out than dump his sorry behind and find someone who isn't afraid to take you out in public and have a great time.

Answer #6:

Work a little harder?

My dear, you are not too forward, you are too narcissistic.

And there is nothing subtle about you.

Good luck in your future relationships.

Answer #7:

If, he got his "feelings" hurt by that, then he's a girl and you shouldn't go out with him

Answer #8:

No,

I think you handled that very well.

Saying nothing but being disappointed would have been a mistake. Guys are eager to please...we just can't read minds and want to know what you expect of us.

Now, of course...when he delivers, be sure to act very happy about it.

Good Luck!

Answer #9:

You did the right thing. Don't let yourself feel down. Just forget about it. If he does take it the other way he needs to find another girl.

Answer #10:

Lighten up...stop over thinking it. If it was too bold in his opinion so what. Just move to the next

Answer #11:

You said nothing wrong, you wanted him to know that your not that easy and for him to think all it takes is to get you back to his place get a couple of drinks in you and your good to go. You stick to your guns and if your not ready it's not up to him to get you ready.

Answer #12:

Your intuition was kicking in....Too much time in his apartment could lead to something that you don't want nor are you ready for......You can't mix words when you have something important to say. Think of it this way, when you try to sugar coat something, it usually gets misinterpreted. If he is offended, he should be smart enough to speak up. It's the not speaking up that gets people into trouble. Trust your instinct and do what is best for you. Good luck!

Answer #13:

This guy doesn't want to date you. He's just working up to getting you in bed. That's all he wants. SEX!

Next time he wants you to come over to his house and just hang out with him. Tell him no, this isn't your idea of dating. Tell him when he's ready to part with a little of his money and go out on a real date, then give you a call. Until then, don't waste your time.





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